At the same time, we have to recognize that without good boundaries, a pastor could easily spend all of their time and energy on this person. Consequently, other people and other responsibilities get neglected, we become frustrated, and eventually we might come to resent rather than shepherd this person. We need to exercise wisdom, lest over time we find ourselves worn out by the insatiability of this person’s needs, and like those before us, become exasperated with them. One of the worst things
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